#196 | Guy Shahar: Is This Tantra's Most Powerful Practice?
Jun 15, 2026
Most people have heard of the G-spot. Almost nobody knows about the Sacred Spot. And the difference between the two might be the most important thing you learn about your body this year.
In Episode 196 of the Sex Reimagined Podcast, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with Guy Shahar — Tantric teacher, creator of Tantra Speed Date, and longtime friend of the show — for the first dedicated conversation on Sacred Spot Massage ritual. This is the cornerstone practice of conscious Tantric sexuality, developed by Charles Muir over 30 years ago, and all three hosts trained directly under him. What they share in this episode is personal, honest, and genuinely unlike anything else in the intimacy space.
Guy opens up about his teenage accidental discovery of Charles Muir's work through a mail-order VHS tape, his years of using giving as a shield against vulnerability, and the client session that permanently changed how he understood trust. Leah shares how consistent Sacred Spot work helped her heal years of childhood sexual trauma. Willow brings the lens of Taoist Sexology and two decades of bodywork to illuminate what is actually happening in the body when this practice is done well.
The Sacred Spot is an energetic acupressure point located within the G-spot area on the front wall of the vagina, about three-quarters of the way back. In Tantric and Taoist traditions, it corresponds to the second chakra, Svadhisthana — the home of the true self, essence, and Jing Qi. When touched with conscious loving intention, it does not just produce sensation. It surfaces what the body has been storing: grief, numbness, shutdown pleasure, old wounds. And then, layer by layer, it begins to release them.
This is why people cry during Sacred Spot sessions without knowing why. This is why couples who have not been sexual in years suddenly find each other again after a single Saturday night with this practice. Love, not technique, is the active ingredient.
Key Takeaways From This Episode
- Sacred Spot Massage is a Tantric healing ritual, not foreplay — the goal is love and presence, not orgasm
- Separating the giver and receiver roles builds skills that directly upgrade intimacy in all your relationships
- The ritual container (candles, intention, a beautified space) sends the receiver's nervous system a message it rarely gets: you matter
- Men carry more receiving wounds than most people realize, and Sacred Spot practice is one of the most powerful ways to heal them
- Consistent practice heals in layers — Leah's trauma resolution unfolded over three to six years of regular Sacred Spot work
- Trust begins with yourself, not with finding someone safe enough to let in
Ready to experience Sacred Spot Massage in person? Leah and Guy are leading a workshop in New York City July 17 through 20, open to singles and couples. Leah, Guy, and Wanda Santos-Haynes are co-teaching a Tantra Beginners Immersive Weekend in Phoenix August 14 through 16. And Leah and Dr. Willow are hosting a couples-only Sacred Spot retreat in Craftsbury, Vermont, September 26 and 27. Find all event details and registration at sexreimagined.com/events.
Episode Links
- Guy's Tantra Speed Date Events
- NYC Workshop | The Sacred Spot Massage Weekend with Leah & Guy | July 17 through 19 — New York City
- PHX Workshop | The Tantra Retreat with Leah, Guy, & Wanda | August 14 through 16, 2026 — Phoenix, AZ
- VT Workshop | Couples Tantra Retreat with Leah & Willow | September 26 through 27, 2026 — Craftsbury, VT
- SxR Episode #149 | Guy Shahar & Maya Kova: How To Stop Attracting The Wrong People Using This Dating Method
- SxR Episode #23 | Guy Shahar: Find Love and Explore Non-Monogamy with Tantra Speed Date
