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#23 - Finding Love at Tantra Speed Date with Guy Shahar

Season #2


How does this episode benefit listeners or help solve a problem?  Introduce Sexpert and their accomplishments. 

Guy Shahar, the creator of Tantra Speed Date and co-founder of the NY Tantra Insitute, reminds us that each day we should ask ourselves, “how can I love better today?” After all, it would be pretty disappointing to look back at the end of our lives and realize just how much love we left on the table instead of going all-out in one of life's most profound treasures.



▪️ Non-monogamy can be a stressful topic, but today you’ll get some laughs as Guy describes what he and his former partner did when they realized they weren’t being completely honest about how juicy their other dates were and why it brought them closer in the end.

▪️ From ditching dating apps to meeting your new wingman/woman to finding love and marriage to surprising tales of baby-making miracles. You’ll be delighted that Tantra Speed Date is opening in new cities far and wide for you or your single friends to enjoy. 

▪️ Being true to your desire is not just being in integrity with yourself, but it matters deeply, if not more so, when being in integrity with others.



[00:00] Introduction to Guy Shahar

[03:48] Conscious uncoupling with Lauren Harkness

[08:43] Transparency in Relationships

[14:21] Tantra Speed Date

[23:26] The Intimacy Hour, Community Parties, and Online Courses

[25:14] Desire, Attraction, and Preferences

[32:05] Sovereignty is Integrity. You do no one favors when you say yes, but you're really a no.

[34:21] Miracle Stories from Students

[39:00] Stories of Tantra Speed Date Marriages & Babies

[39:39] Free Gift for our SxR Audience

[41:12] Time to Dish - The Guy Shahar Episode



Guy’s New York Tantra Institute

Guy’s Tantra Speed Date

Guy’s Intimacy Hour on YouTube

Take Leah’s Sexual Healing Course at the New York Tantra Institute 

Guy’s - FREE GIFT - What is Tantra?  Get 100% discount using this link!!



COURSE - Certified Tantra Educators

COURSE - Quodoushka        

COURSE - Source Tantra CTE Mastery

Lauren Harkness

Leah’s Website - More Love Works

Charles Muir Site - link to bio page of website 


Co-Hosts Dr. Willow Brown & Leah Piper bring a wealth of wisdom through their combined 40 years of expertise in human sexuality, health, and spiritual growth.  Leah is a Tantric Sex Master Coach and Positive Psychology Facilitator, while Dr. Willow is a Chinese & Functional Medicine Doctor and Taoist Sexology Teacher.  When these two devotees of love come together, they blend and weave the ancient teachings of Tao and Tantra for the modern lover with humor, insight, and wisdom.


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